Letter sender ( Sheila May San Miguel )

Letter sender ( Sheila May San Miguel )

Dear Danny;

I work as a call center agent here in Makati . I am 33 years old , maganda at medyo chubby nga lang . Mabait ang Bf ko pero may napapansin akong kakatuwa sa kanyang kinikilos at pagsasalita. Nararamdaman ko na isa siyang miyembro ng “ third Sex” Lagi niyang pinapansin ang aking eye make-up at pinakikialaman nya ang pagsusuot ko ng “nighties- gusto niya ay silk at kulay pula. Napakalinis niya sa katawan at laging mabango. Mayaman ang kanyang angkan at “generous naman siya. Gusto ko na makipag break . Makahanap pa ba ako ng iba? Ano ang magiging kapalaran ko sa pag-ibig Ano ang maipapayo mo sa akin?

Nalilito,
Sheila

Answer
From Danny Cinco

Dear Sheila,

By all means Sheila , get out of the relationship . Baka lumuha ka lamang ng alkitran later on kapag tinuloy mo pa ‘yan. Your guess is as good as mine. Sumasang -ayon ang baraha at bituin sa desisyon mo na kumalas sa iyong gay BF . Get started now to find the love who will be special above all others. You deserve to be happy. You deserve love and romance. Things can get in the way of that sometimes. . In any case, we have to move forward and get on with things. The sooner that is realized the better. Move forward in faith and hope and give your search effort the very best you can give. Stick with it. As some of you probably know already, it can take time. If you apply yourself well though and choose wisely, you have the rest of your time here to look forward to, enjoying it being in love with a caring and attentive straight friend and lover. Remember, you are very special. There is no one else on earth who is exactly like you. You
deserve to be happy. Lf you are sure it’s is not going to work, it is usually senseless to continue . Some women do not want to “hurt” the man’s feelings and keep going out with him, but allowing him to hang on only encourages him to hold out hope, to get more serious about you and to get even more hurt later. It also keeps him, and possibly you, from moving ahead to find who the right love is.
We have often heard that there needs to be “chemistry” between two people if they are going to move forward and become soulmates. There is not just one kind of chemistry that needs to be present with couples and partners, but four:
-Physical chemistry (Generates desire)
-Emotional chemistry (Generates affection)
-Mental chemistry (Generates interest)
-Spiritual chemistry (Creates love)
These are useful guides to keep in mind as you are dating new men and work toward determining if a man is “the one” for you.

- Danny